I went out to harvest cucumbers and green beans with my kids early one morning. The plants looked amazing, with vines reaching everywhere. At first glance, it looked like we would come out with nothing to show for our months of effort water, picking off bugs, and weeding. But after we slowed down and searched for a while, we began to see lots of vegetables (we found 17 cucumbers and an entire colander of green beans!).
Just like the vegetables hidden in the garden, sometimes we get so caught up in the daily grind that we miss all the amazing things we’re accomplishing as moms. That’s why a monthly review is SO important! It is when we slow down and look for all of the fruit that we get to celebrate and enjoy our daily efforts.
You can do a monthly review on a piece of paper or journal, or use the Thriving in Motherhood Planner.
There’s a page each month for doing this monthly review so you never have to remember that it’s time to sit down and reflect again.
If you want a little more accountability and motherhood camaraderie we’d love to have you join us in our monthly Soaring Mothers Society Calls. These monthly calls are a fantastic way to connect with other moms, share your review progress, and get inspired.
And here’s my favorite part of the whole process (and a way to battle the mom guilt that so easily creeps in): After your monthly review, share it with your kids and husband at the dinner table! Share the things you are learning and discovering. Share your accomplishments. Reflect and remember the things you’ve done as a family and the places you’ve gone. Share what you’ve been reading. And then ask them about their progress too! Your kids want to celebrate with you, be proud of you, and enjoy seeing your success and growth as much as you enjoy seeing theirs.
This is a powerful way to create a strong family culture of motivated, growing individuals who cheer each other on.
Grab a piece of paper, join our Soaring Mother Society Calls, or use your planner – whatever works for you. Just take that time to reflect, celebrate, and share your joy with your family.
I can’t wait to hear about all the amazing things YOU’RE accomplishing!
I’m cheering you on!
Jessica